Well, XH as many of you know who he is, is at it again today. Just over. Is wanting me (not asking) WANTING!!!! me to give him a copy of the divorce decree, so he can use it on an application. WEll, he has a copy, but Mr. Know it all doesn't seem to beable to find it. He just criticized me, and put me down again. And then in front of my oldest daughter just 2 days ago, said to my face, he got rid of me. Oh, yeah, this is a caring XH, which he says he is. Oh yeah, he is the one that is rational <img border="0" title="" alt="[Mad]" src="images/icons/mad.gif" /> (wish they had a vomit icon), he will be nice when he needs something. I told him politely today. NO. You have a copy. You have a lawyer get a copy. He went on you are not going to do this for me. Here I come over here and do things and you are not going to do this for me. Today I am fixing a door, which is another one of the jobs he never did. Just like the shower downstairs, I am redoing the whole shower, cause of the leak that has been there for over 10 years. And everything is rotten. But I am doing this job myself, for the bid I got was enormous.

All he says, is we split things up in the divorce. I said today, you got your copy from the lawyer, you can get another copy from the lawyer. See he owes his lawyer money, for I saw his lawyer at the grocery store one day. And he said XH owes him money. So XH doesn't want to contact his lawyer for he owes his lawyer money too. Just like all the medical bills that XH was suppose to start paying on and hasn't cause he is this way. Now I have creditors calling me, and my credit is screwed. I was the only adult that had good credit, for me and my husband. He is on his mommys credit card, cause he can't get credit.

So now he can handle his own disorganization. Remember (JDB) you told Kristina that you got rid of me just 2 days ago. <img border="0" title="" alt="[Mad]" src="images/icons/mad.gif" /> <img border="0" title="" alt="[Frown]" src="images/icons/frown.gif" /> now lay in the bed you created, and have your fun with Ms. **** ******).

I am off to my youngest childs commencement. He is my last one to graduate from High School. And I am so happy for my son, Bye running late.

Faith, I removed the full name of the person mentioned.

Magnolia

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Magnolia - I am sorry that I put her name down. Good for you for deleting, I was livid cause X came over and demanded not asked and putting me down if I don't comply, and I was running out of time. Thanks again. I won't use her full name again. I do have another name for her that is not quite as nice, but she is the one that made her bed with my Xhusband, and she is the one that has to sleep in that bed now.

Laura - I used my no button. And it is staying that way. He puts me down in writing, verbally, puts me down in front the kids. He states that he doesn't, but he has and will continue doing so. It is part of his personality.

I did say NO, cause I am the organized soul between the two of us. And Have always been the one, and he didn't give me respect for that either. He could find anything he needed, look in the files, and elsewhere or ask me and it could be found. I do plenty for him, by letting him have his business phones here. And occasionally coming over to see the kids, which they all could go to his mothers house to see him. They all drive and have vehicles. The business phones ring here all 24 hours of the day. I could easily have them taken out, and yes he pays for my personal phone here for the business phones being in my home, but I am willing to give home phone up too.

I am no longer dealing with his evil manner. His manipulation and coercing me to do things. He has done that with me and I am done.

Now he can figure this one out for himself. He has left me many things that I have had to figure out, and he doesn't give one ounce about my welfare or how I live. Proven by his actions and words.

Before I left for my sons graduation, I told him that he has criticized me and put me down and that I am sick of his vindictiveness. He is an unstable man. I am sorry to say this, but his actions are of a man that is severely depressed. He should get on medication. Just like he tells the kids, the meds I am on is making me crazy, which is not true. He needs to look in the mirror and see what he is doing to everyone around him.

Goodnight. Have to get up early, for my 2nd daughter is leaving for her long journey to another state for her endeavor in her degree. I am so proud of her, and I know she is going to be one heck of an engineer.

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