I had not heard anyting from H and for about 5 weeks he has been hiding from me and not letting me talk to my boys.
I decided to drive up to Houston and see the boys on demand.
I did. I was not surprised at all when another woman answered the door.
I expected that. What I could not understand is all the lies that H has told me over the last 5 weeks.
It was sad, I was seeing him, the way he saw me for so long.
I was hurting for him. I told him I did not want to upset him or the OW. I was there to only see my boys.
He began to weep, I was not sure if he was crying because he knew then that he had been the one caught in lies now.
I am totally lost on this one.
He told me that the relationship with the woman I met at the front door was going no where really.
I asked him if she knew that because it appeared to me that this woman had been staying with him for a week or so and she tells him she loves him also.
I told him that he did not have to pretend.
I understood that he needed to move on.
I just felt he did not need to hide my children, her or their relationship.
I feel like a fool with him. One minute he is being an A** to me and hiding my kids and any contact with them and the next he is crying because I found him with another woman.
The outcome of my surprise visit to Houston.
I have my boys with me in Dallas and H will be picking them up on next week.
It is amazing how ones world opens up once they are out of the fog.
I am also amazed at the power of prayer.