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i am very depressed and need some advice. My husband and i have been married for nearly 3 years but have been living together for 6, we have known each other sice we were 14. Last year he lost his grandmother and monther and i found out i was pregnant about a month after that, he was over the moon but couldn't cope with my hormones, i was depressed and worrying how we would cope, he was under a lot of stress and was finding work hard. then in january of this year he walked out on me telling me he had met someone else, i was four and a half months pregnant and felt like my world had been ripped apart, i couldn't belive it, he was the one that was pestering me to have children and now he was walking out. well he moved in with the girl who is 5 years younger than him. i didn't see him for about 3 weeks then he started to come round once or twice. i told him i loved him and needed him back, that we had a future together. he did come back but then walked out again 4 days later, 2 days after that i was taken into hospital due to stress i was now almost 6 months pregnant, he moved back into the house, when i came out of the hospital i thought we could make a go of it, he was very distant to me the first couple of weeks telling me every 2 days that he was leaving, but then he changed and decided to stay with me, i asked him why and he told me because i was his wife and we were having a child together, he said he was finished with this girl but that talks to her all the time they text each other and he goes and sees her now and again, i asked him to stop it but he said that they were friends and he wasn't going to cut all ties with her,(by the way he works beside her). i don't know what to do now, do i threaten him, give him an ultimatim, or what, it hurt to know that he still talks to her and sees her but he can't see that, now when he goes out i don't trust him and question where he has been and who he has seen, he said that this was begining to get on his nerves, but what can i do if he is still in contact with her, he can't see why this is hurting me.

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