I am the wife that had an A. My H travelled constantly. Neither one of our emotional needs were being met. Still no excuse. I called off my A shortly after the separation. No contact with A at all, by choice. We went through a divorce.We have begun rebuilding a friendship. He sees other women. We have been intimate since the divorce. I regret deeply what I have done. He is afraid to comit again becauseof the pain and hurt I caused. I feel confident God wants us together. Don't feel like I need to date. I know who and what I want. We were married for 15 years. 2 children. 1 in college. I pray every day, every moment of every day for reconciliation. He has moved out of state at time of separation. Only three hours away though. We see each other on weekends when he sees our son. Have enjoyed great conversation, and short dates. Where do we go from here?

<small>[ June 14, 2004, 10:28 PM: Message edited by: prayinmom ]</small>

If you want to rebuild the marriage, get on the emotional needs boards and buy the His needs/her needs books. If you are both serious about rebuilding, try to attend the next MB seminar.

If there's still love, that's a great start. The concepts on the main site are excellent tools, I hope you can use them to rebuild.