Inspired by one of Peachys posts - I decided to play the number one detective. First I searched for my current BF on Match.com. Thankfully, I do not see him on there. He just gained extra points with me, but he doesn't even know it!!
Then I decided to look for my ex - and bingo! There he is!
And get this - he says he considers himself a "hopeless romatic" who still believes there can be "happiness in love". He says he is still looking for that right woman so he can sweep her off her feet.
Ugh!

WOF--

YUCK!!!
I bet you wanted to throw-up!
That would make me sick to read that about my X.

But, do have to confess, after reading this about you and Peachy, guess you know where I went this morning?!
Yep, but, I found nothing.

It would have been so creepy if I did though.

Take care, try to laugh it off, as sick as it may be.

K.

My husband is on Adultfinder.com. He has posted a profile there pretending that we are a couple looking for another woman... I was livid! I of course never said that I wanted that. And to top it off he put up a picture of himself there too. I am none too pleased. He will also tell me if I go out that if I dont pick up another woman, not to come home at all. He is very rude.

Tara -
That is sick!


I finally figured out how to get into ex's profile to read what all he has to say about himself and what a great catch he is. He actually ays that he will "have dinner on the table waiting for her her when she gets home from work each day" <img border="0" title="" alt="[Eek!]" src="images/icons/shocked.gif" /> What??? When did he start that?? And he says that he is the type of guy who can clean up after himself <img border="0" title="" alt="[Eek!]" src="images/icons/shocked.gif" /> <img border="0" title="" alt="[Eek!]" src="images/icons/shocked.gif" /> When did that start??? he used to sit in his chair in the corner, take his socks off, and throw them in a pile. I would ask him to please take his own socks into the basket and he would either say "I will later, I am too tired right now" and later would happen in a week or he would say "you know, a lot of women wish that this was the worst thing their husband ever did and wish they had me instead" (of course that wasn't the worst thing he ever did, that was just the one thing I thought he would be willing to work on. Eventually I quit asking him to help by picking up his own socks, and walking to the next room to put them in the basket. I just did it, in the interest of keeping peace in the family.
Now, he is trying to convince someone on Match.com that he is the perfect man.
yuck
He also says on there that some of his interests are hiking, sports, and erotica. At least he attempts honesty there. But I wouldn't call his interest "erotica" because I feel like erotica is not the full on, hard core porn that he watches daily. To me, erotica is flirting with the boundaries of nudity, and sexuality, still leaving something to your imagination. For him, a movie had to be hard R or X or he just wasn't interested.
ok, I will quit obsessing about it now. <img border="0" title="" alt="[Smile]" src="images/icons/smile.gif" />

Wow, Thats really terrible. But at what point is enough, enough? Do you have any children together?? I am struggling with how to separate creating the least difficulty for my two year old daughter. Just being with him makes me feel bad. I feel like the way he treats me is all that i am worth. Its very sad. If he is looking for someone else, I hope that he finds them and leaves me alone.

Taran,

I don't know anything about you, your story, or your faith. All I can tell you is that if you are a woman of faith, well, where are you told in your religion it's ok for your husband to pimp you out? You need to take a stick, broom, whatever and the next time he makes a comment like that, draw a visible line on the ground with it. Make a mental picture for him, and demonstrate which side of the line he is on. Explain to him that his current attitude is not anything that will ever open your heart towards him or his to you. His comment makes me very angry, I don't care where you are at in your marriage (unless you guys swing, but I don't get that impression).

Please, take a stand against this. You standing up for your rights in the sense of having a spouse where you are valued and respected is a thing you do deserve. It doesn't mean that you can just quit the marriage if he doesn't, but, you don't have to lie on your back and take it. There is standing up for yourself, and then there is being too defensive. This is standing up for yourself and your value in this world. Really, I want to knock your H flat on his back. I don't care if alot of men have some silly little fantasy about two women, you do not insult your wife like he is doing. Grrr.

I'm sorry.

Ha Ha! You women should E-mail your ex'x on the dating sites and act really sexy. Develop a new screen name like Sexy4U2 or something. Then, get them real hot after you and drooling to meet you. Set up a meeting and don't show up!

This might be mean but look what the (--------) did to you!!!!!1