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well my wife wants a divorce and i dont but i know shes seeing someone im out of the house already and she already cut me a check for the equity and my stuff is out of the house she already refinaced and thats that
i tried to ask her to go to marriage counceling told her i loved her and she just doesnt respond its like she hates me 14 years down the tubes im not happy
yeah we had tought imes but i was willing to stick it out
well shes cheated on me befor and i dont know how many times she has but it was ruining are marriage i just cant beleive how someone can let things go after so long a life built together
any suggestions
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Advice --> see a lawyer PRONTO. Sounds to me like there is a lot more to deal with.
Any kids? Why are you out of the house? Why didn't she leave? Where are you staying now? How are you managing?
As for advice for a broken heart -- a great book to read during this beginning stage (and throughout the stages) is Rebuilding When your Relationship Ends by Dr. Bruce Fischer. It's a great book on divorce that deals with broken hearts, anger, disbelief, children....to mention a few.
If you feel that you need more help, see your family physician, get into counselling to help you deal with this stuff. Keep posting and be safe.
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