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Lookin for some advise. Just move to new town, 2 months here my wife says. "That she wants to go her own way. Oh by the way I have feelings for my (her) boss and he shares the same fellings for me." OUCH That was 2 months ago and now we are seperated and I can't let go. I find myself always wondering what is going on now. About a month ago she told me that they were backing off and nothing fisical has happend. Two weeks ago I found them kissing in the mall parking lot. When I confronted her she said there was nothing going on and that I am making a fool of myself. HUMM
I was crushed and seen no light to us. I with drew my feelings and from her and resided to the hard way. Last weekend I couldn't dew that any more and stared the negotatetions again. In hopes that she will see for herself that what she has done is wrong and is unlikely to last.What to do? I love her very much and I am a faithful follower of the marriage vows that we took. To this day we have never raised our voices to ech other and have always met mutial grounds on impacts of our lives.
I have seen the reasons to this, I was sole money provider for 6 of our 8 yrs. She of course worked at the house. We move to town and I have maintian my work habits and she got a job. But I did not releave her of any of her house chores. OOPS. Nor did I ever say Thank you. I know he is providing her with what she wants at this time but I have made it a point to fill her back up. But I go nuts everytime he pops up and that puts her further from us.
I need this feller out so I can get my work done. Thoughts???
How can I get back into her eyes??
Our children are suffering so dearly. Not from her, me or him(IT). But from all of us.
She still is in love with me but can't stand the fact that I took so much from her.
We started negotations last night and resolved to take in account each others feelings before we act in any manner. Good But it cost me so dearly just to show her that I am willing to fill her up again. Know I am questioning if that was right. Or is she keepin me happy again.
O'man this is not fun!!!
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know, I think that you might want to post over on the General Questions II forum, this forum is pretty slow. Dawn <img border="0" title="" alt="[Smile]" src="images/icons/smile.gif" />
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