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My guy is in the military and lives in another state. We met online and he's told me that he's been legally separated since 3/01 and we met in 10/01. Now that his divorce is almost final, his wife has tried to befriend me by corresponding to me via his email. Whatever conversations we had she took those back to her attorney and now a hearing is in her favor to try and prove he committed adultery. Since we've met, we've only seen each other once but she has no knowledge of that. Now what should I do in this situation? I don't want to cause him his career in which he loves.
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I think you should cool it until he is completely divorced. <p>He's not "your guy"-he's a man married to someone else.
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Joined: Mar 2002
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Uh,,,what he said about coolin it.
Also read "His Needs Her Needs" and "Love Busters" to prevent your marriage from following the same path as his last one, which it will unless youall learn a thing or two. Dr. Harley has been fixing stuff like this for several decades now and what you can learn from two books can change the rest of your life.
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