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I got a phone call today from H's g/f's H telling me that she had called crying to him, she'd been fired today from her job, which my H now has been promoted into. I couldn't help but jump up and down for joy. Not because H got promoted, but because g/f got canned.

Also talked to her H who has a solid custody case against her to have custody of the kids, he has so much dirt on her it isn't funny. It's like she just offered it up to him on a silver platter to use against her.

I also believe she hasn't been at her current job long enough to collect unemployment and she just signed a lease and chunked up a bunch of money on an appartment she moved into last Monday.

Hearing about all the crap that's tearing this woman down into the ground makes me feel so good. I can't help but get excited and be so overly happy at her struggle.

I don't get that way with my H. I don't get excited when something happens to him that isn't the way he wanted. I actually feel sorry for him when things don't go his way. But her, totally different story!

Does everyone feel this way? This woman's life has just been ruined and I couldn't be happier! Everytime I think about it I can't help but wriggle around and start giggling like a little kid.

I think the finale would be if H left her sorry [censored] on the street cause her H doesn't want her back no way no how and she'd be COMPLETELY alone! Welcome to my pain B****!

I'm being patient. I'm just listening to all these little stories of her heartache and reveling in them on my own time. My life's not much easier, but it's not destroyed, not yet and I'm fighting not to let it get that way.

It's REALLY hard not to ask H how things are going with his g/f. I'm sure her H will be the first one to call and tell me what's going on, especially since she's still calling her H almost daily.

Anyway, I don't know if it's right or wrong to feel this way, but today has been a wonderful day! She got canned, I got moved to first shift, H got promoted, it's been a great day!

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I find it very interesting that her life is crashing down around her and she calls her husband crying and not yours.

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I'm sure she's crying to anyone that's willing to listen to it.

But it is interesting that she supposably hates this man with a passion yet still calls him all the time.


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