Hello -

Does anyone remember the thread ??? was it CJ's??? where she got fed up with her husband, told him she wasn't going to take his crap any more (or abuse?) that she was going to get a DV. He straighted up right then and there.
I think it was late 2002 or early 2003.

Does that sound familiar?

D.

<small>[ July 20, 2004, 07:28 AM: Message edited by: WillGetThruThis ]</small>

Sadly, it wasn't one of my threads, WillGetThruThis. I told my exH what my three bottom line issues were, and I gave him 3 days to respond. He could come up with any plan that worked for him and was agreeable for him, but he had to get started on it immediately because I wasn't going to wait around anymore for "when I'm ready" or "later."

Unfortunately he chose to not respond in any way to my 3 bottom line issues, and he chose to have yet another affair. His decision was that he'd rather deny the sexual addiction, avoid the mental illnesses, and blame me for his abuse. Our divorce was final in May 2003.

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HOWEVER, if you give a little more info about the thread you're looking for, like an unusual detail or a few more clues, maybe I can help you find it. I'm a GREAT searcher, plus I've been here forever and often remember the good posts!

Sorry!


CJ