I have been married for over 3 yrs. I went out of the marriage about 1.5 yrs ago and the wife found out. I was in this relationship with OW for months. In the meantime I treated the Wife very bad. She was willing to move on about 1yr ago but I wasnt for some crazy reason, now she is filing for divorce and I have realized alot of things and she is saying she will never be able to forgive and forget and she needs and wants out. Has anyone been in a similar situation and saved the marriage. Any Advice would be greatly appreciated.

Sorry that you are here, but here you are, and it is the best place to be under the circumstances.
How much have you read here? How well do you understand the Harley concepts? Read all that you can.

In the meantime, please provide us with some more info so that we may help you.

GB

What is the situation currently? Has she already filed for divorce? Are you still living together?
</font><blockquote><font size="1" face="Verdana, Arial">quote:</font><hr /><font size="2" face="Verdana, Arial"> She was willing to move on about 1yr ago but I wasnt for some crazy reason, now she is filing for divorce and I have realized alot of things and she is saying she will never be able to forgive and forget and she needs and wants out. </font><hr /></blockquote><font size="2" face="Verdana, Arial">A year ago you were not able to move on, how about now?? If she was able to move on a year ago then what has changed that she is now not able to fogive and forget? Need more detail,
Most importantly ask her for forgivness directly and read and learn all on this site. There is hope yet and if you want this marriage to work you still may be able to even if she is not into right now. READ THIS SITE and learn!