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This is going to sound really dumb, but i have a question about the symantics of a relationship.<p>here goes: how do you get a song? i need to know the requirement of determining what a couples song is. i have NO clue how this is done and it's really important to me. i want to be able to play "our song" for my girlfrind... or at the VERY least know what it is!<p>can anyone help?
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Well, I have been led to believe that "The Song" represents a special memory together. Such as the first time you danced, kissed or even the first time you saw eachother. you get the idea. But sometimes it can be a song that reminds you of a special time, or provokes loving thoughts for each of you for the other. See what I mean? I hope that this helps you out. Here's an experiment. Think of the song that played the first time you danced together, then set up a "Date Night", and play the song and ask her to dance. I think it'll be a hit.<p>Good luck.
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Or a song that makes you think of her...one of my bf's said the old song "Crazy" (from the 70's)was our song because he loved my blue eyes. <p>It goes "I go crazy each time when I look in your eyes." <p>My h says the country song "forever and ever amen" is our song because it describes how he feels.<p>My song is "I'm Too Sexy for my Shirt". Just kidding.<p> [img]images/icons/grin.gif" border="0[/img]
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I think I would pick a song that would remind me of her..."Baby Blue" if she has blue eyes....etc. Good luck. That's really sweet of you. [img]images/icons/smile.gif" border="0[/img]
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