The short story. Divorced May 2002 XW immediately moves in with former best friend across the street, lots of fog and BS for the next several months. July 2003 I meet someone really special. We get married in May of this year.

I have not had any contact with my XW in over a year except when her son was hospitalized or I returned items of hers I found while packing to move to another town 50 miles away over holidays.

This past weekend a friend of mine's wife was telling me my XW was delivering pizzas to her job and told her I begged her to come back before I re-marrried, that I call her and follow her and that she has a restraining order against me. Needless to say none of that is true.

My XW is still living with my former best friend and they are engaged to be married next year.

She has BPD.