Hello All,
It has been awhile since I have posted but I have been lurking. I just wanted to update anyone who may be interested.

On August 9 I went to the child support office. I got an appointment for Sept. 20. I went to the appointment, the lady gave me a court date for Oct. 28. She told me this would go thru faster than my dv proceedings. I am nervous about this court. I don't know what to expect.

On Sept. 9 I filled for dv. I filed the papers with the clerks office. Yesterday while I was in town I asked the clerks office what the status of my dv papers were. The clerk told me R's papers were sent to the sheriff's office to be served. She said it wouldn't take that long before he is served.

Okay, now is there anyway I can find out if/when he will be served? The clerk told me he has to respond by paper within 15 days of being served. I know R has a friend that is friends with a lawyer. I am not sure what to expect now. I filed the dv papers myself b/c I don't have the money for an attorney.

I saw R Sunday loading his ice chest with beer. And then I saw him Monday helping his friend with peewee football. I didn't have any feelings except I wondered where OW was low and behold she was a few cars behind him. I do wonder why he didn't show up earlier b/c I was picking up his brother from jr. high football practice. (R's brother is living with my mom since R & brother's mother passed away two years ago).

I guess I am either hiding or moving past this marriage b/c I don't visit here as often as I did. I am reading a great book "Spiritual Divorce - A path to healing". It is more of a journaling book to help you get to the bottom of your feelings. The first few chapters are for those questioning leaving. then it goes into steps to take to find a lawyer. I am not reading it as quickly as I should. I guess I would rather put it behind me and not work through these feelings.

Thanks for listening.
J