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When i started posting...i never thought i would end here!
I have always felt my story was not that bad...but yet here i am...
I will be sending the papers to the lawyers on monday.
Any tips on what next to expect?
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Haven't been there (yet). I just see that we're both up late and wanted to offer my sympathies on such a terrible situation.
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I'm sorry to hear that, zizzy. I feel your pain.
Stay strong.
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Thanks GG...i normally hang out at GeneralQ2 but i guess it is time to lurk here...
Sometimes i feel it is me who force WH to do a divorce.
Even with the papers signed if i procastinate and not sent them to the lawyers, i doubt WH would pursue it.
At the moment i really dont know what to do.
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Hi Ruff...thank you...that OW is really good. WH keeps saying she never force him. And of course i failed in that part. Aaaarrrgghhh...how can i not...i am his wife and WH is treating OW like his new wife. I peek into his wallet the other day and OW picture was inside there. Bad move coz that turns me into psycho woman for a moment.
I dont know where my strength had gone to. I am stuck in that to divorce or not to divorce him. I still have a choice. I know WH will procastinate and all of us can wait and wait until one gives.
There is still a big chance OW will leave if i wait but how long...i dont know if i can wait...it has been one longgg year.
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