My husband has left our home and has been living somewhere else (alone) for the past 5 weeks. We still have daily contact with eachother and I see him on a regular basis. Although we are not intimate, we remain friends and civil with eachother. We don't talk about our relationship at all, which is very frustrating. He knows that I want to reconcile and want him to come home. He on the other hand, does not have any intentions of coming home at this time. I am very frustrated at this point because I feel as if he is getting his cake and eating it too. He comes and goes as he pleases but yet we aren't working things out, nor is he telling me what he is feeling, what he wants, if he want's to reconcile, etc. I have been remaining very patient with him, but I feel as if he needs to make a decision soon. How much longer do I need to wait??? Should I give him a deadline?? I love him so much and want him to come home. I even wrote him a heartfelt letter last week and he hasn't even read it yet. He said he is not ready to read it. I need him here with me either 100% or not at all, and I have discussed this with him, but he didn't react to it. I feel as if I need to give him a little awakening, but I don't know how to do it. I can't deny him of his child, nor his home, or can I, until he makes his decision????

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