After 22 years of marriage, 26 together, 3 wonderful kids two great careers and a beutiful home, six months ago my husband amitted to an affair with a co-worker. Since that time he can not decide if our marriage is worth working for or if he should just call it quits. I am in counseling (he can't decide if he wants to go) and want this marriage to work.. Iam willing to work through our problems. I can not live everyday wondering who he is with or what time he is going to come home, he said he needed space. but how do you give space without trust. Last week he moved out at my convincing. Iam depressed, lonely and want him to come home.