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I've read the comment about fog talk, "don't believe anything you hear and only half of what you see". It seems to be applied when there is an A. But, what if there is no A? Do people still fall victim to fog talk for other reasons? How do you know if it's fog talk, or for real? Does anyone have any ideas about this?
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Fog Talk definately does not only apply to A. It is basically an irrational interpretation of reality.
My STBXhas twisted so many things around that I can't even count. She actually told me one time that she felt I needed to go to anger management classes before I spent time alone with the kids.
That doesn't sound unreasonable, but if you knew me and how I am with my kids, you would see why I consider it fog talk.
I saw it as her way of justifying to herself that she was doing the right thing. And I truly believe that she believed herself.
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FOG TALK--- Mispreception issuses--irrational-- Another voice unknown- vapor voice piped through wayward spouses like a empty wine skin.
They all have one common voice, common language, common hang outs, same lines, same script, share the same network, nothing they say is real.
Drug induced distorted state; Like walking through strawberry fields-where nothing is real and nothing to get hung up about.
Unless you touch the bubble. Then one becomes sharply, severly rebuked in FOG Talk. Motive is completely to confuse, hurt, mistreat, use and lose you.
Reality suggests they don't have the foggiest idea of what they are really doing. And they don't!
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