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How prone is anyone to temptation? I feel we all are to some extent. MY XWW told me I was not meeting her ENs. Ok, but instead of working at it she had an affair.
She now says she has a chemical imbalance, Ok but she has not gone and gotten any help.

I decided one day to let her know about an experiment I was doing at work that involves another woman. I wanted to see how easy it is to fool someone into believing how good she would have it to be with me and not her mate. Yes, I said everything she wanted to hear from me, after a couple of months she was thinking about me, when she had sex with her husband she was thinking of me. I had this woman so in love with me that she felt I was her soul mate.

I told me XWW, and her first response to me was "give me her phone number, so she can tell her that this would be a big mistake". Don't worry I said to my XWW, it was only an experiment to prove how easy I too am capable of breaking up someone else relationship.

I spoke to the girl and convince her that I was not looking to destroy her relationship, just merely to see how far I can go with it. She has since quit the job and moved on, and are now good friends.

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You 'experimented' with someone else life, just so you could find out for yourself 'how easy it was' ?

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Thats a pretty rotten thing to do!

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</font><blockquote><font size="1" face="Verdana, Arial">quote:</font><hr /><font size="2" face="Verdana, Arial"> I decided one day to let her know about an experiment I was doing at work that involves another woman </font><hr /></blockquote><font size="2" face="Verdana, Arial"> </font><blockquote><font size="1" face="Verdana, Arial">quote:</font><hr /><font size="2" face="Verdana, Arial"> it was only an experiment to prove how easy I too am capable of breaking up someone else relationship </font><hr /></blockquote><font size="2" face="Verdana, Arial">All Alone again.

I'll take my chances with the moderator and not be as nice as the others that have replied

Basically, I think you are a real jerk off for screwing around with some one elses life for your own piece of mind.

Do you even have any clue of what MB concepts are about?

If you did you would not do such a ****ty thing to someone elses marriage.

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I do admitt it was a rotten thing to do, but I did not destroy anyone's life. I may have caused some doubts in her mind but non the less she is still with her husband and in fact closer than before. I also directed her to this site where she can read threads and understand the MB princples.

Yes, as harsh it may have been, it was a selfish point that I had to prove how vunerable anyone can be.

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All Alone Again,
Congratulations! You seem to have managed to pi$$ the good people here off even more than I ever have. And rightly so. I have trouble believing that any human with any sense of decency would conduct such an "experiment". Rotten dosen't cover it, it was wrong.


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