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#778642 10/25/04 07:40 PM
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I didn't want to hijack Deja Vu's fogtalk thread. I was lurking earlier and I loved your response. But now I've had the Beatles playing in my head all day long. Could have been worse, thanks for not going C&W. Strawberry fields forever.........

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</font><blockquote><font size="1" face="Verdana, Arial">quote:</font><hr /><font size="2" face="Verdana, Arial">Originally posted by deafjeff:
<strong> I didn't want to hijack Deja Vu's fogtalk thread. </strong></font><hr /></blockquote><font size="2" face="Verdana, Arial">I don't mind at all - I like watching people bounce ideas off of other ideas. Besides, it wasn't a very popular thread anyway.

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DeafJeff!!!

Hey there-thanks for tuning in-- kind words...

Beatles were definately in the loop...sing right along with me.

Next part, whole point of fog talk-- M.O of WS-- "LET ME TAKE YOU DOWN".... ((crash, and burn stage...))

(( WS..After we do.. nothing is real... nothing to get HUNG UP about!(WS--Let' just be friends!)

NOT!

((WS--M.O.. Cause we're tryin to bury you in strawberry fields! FOREVER!!! ))

NOT!

(Oh-Yeah,we all know what that feels like here.)


Our part-- our que, our "LET GO" new THEME song, hardest song for us to sing. Hummm this one right along with me.

"LET IT BE"

In times of troubles--- La, la, la. There will be an answer... LET IT BE. LET IT BE, LET IT BE, LET IT BE... THERE WILL BE AN ANSWER....LET IT BE

(BS--- We Found the answer! We should be singin, hummin that tune now to--

LET IT GO & LET'S US ALL GETTA OUTTA HERE& LET THEM GO! WE FOUND THE ANSWER!!! LET THEM GO...

I'm sure we could have a blast re-writing some of those tunes with MB style- Twist and Pout - <img border="0" alt="[Teary]" title="" src="graemlins/teary.gif" /> -

WS fog talk-wants us to TWIST & DOUBT! <img border="0" title="" alt="[Confused]" src="images/icons/confused.gif" />

Maybe we could call our re-vamped songs

FOG WALKER PRODUCTIONS--- <img border="0" title="" alt="[Big Grin]" src="images/icons/grin.gif" />

HEY JUDE- Flipped To

HEY DUDE, DON'T BE SO RUDE, Take a.... <img border="0" title="" alt="[Razz]" src="images/icons/tongue.gif" />

I WANNA HOLD YOUR HAND...

WS.. I Don't WANNA HOLD YOUR HAND..

WS FOG LOGIC:
Cause weeeeee all live in a yellaw submarine... A yellaw submarine... A yellaw sub....
<img border="0" title="" alt="[Roll Eyes]" src="images/icons/rolleyes.gif" />

Think I going to get my Beetles CD out!!!

Dig up some goodies there! We need to cry, laugh at the insanity of it all every once in awhile...

Sgt;Pepper would certainly stamp his approval on our broken hearts club here....

What we need about now is a MASH UNIT---Klinger..

Keep shinin& smilin !!! <img border="0" title="" alt="[Smile]" src="images/icons/smile.gif" />

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DeafJeff & Deja Vu...

Fog talk is such an important TOPIC to discuss!! OH YES, YES, YES!

Exactly, where so many of us BS get lost,confused, perplexed... is in the fog song our ws sing to us of Strawberry Fields:

Verus to the FOG SONG; I'm not doing anything wrong, it's all your head, Say WHO? So what if you caught me in bed. I'm not seein anyone, love you but-- I;m not in love with you, baby the thrill is gone, you don't make me feel like a..natural woman, torn between two lovers or 20, u drove me too, it.. I like the vodoo she do, or he doo. Got me a Black Magic woman, I'm King of Hill, Super FLy, etc.... add your own next stanza.

SOOOO watch my smoke screen squirm as the relationship burns, marriage is over FOREVER!!!

Truth is--We're not going down-- Because we are REAL, and Worth getting hung up about! Forever!!!!

So if we get out our heads out of the soggy fog- or unfog ourselves. Indeed, we have been FOGGED& FOOLED.. & ---- long enough!!!

Spin our own version of strawberry fields,
Where life is real, and people here are nice.
We're Definately good people to get hung upppp& about!!!! WE have strawberry zeal forever!

We'll sing more songs like" I can see clearly now the rain,xs & the pain is gone! I can see clearly now the fog is gone. It's gonna be, bright, bright, bright,bright shiny day!!!

Bring on the Jimmy Buffet, Stevie Wonder...TUNES!!
<img border="0" title="" alt="[Smile]" src="images/icons/smile.gif" /> <img border="0" title="" alt="[Smile]" src="images/icons/smile.gif" /> <img border="0" title="" alt="[Smile]" src="images/icons/smile.gif" />


Cause GOD Loves us very much! I like that TUNE!!!

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Hey DJ& DV

Posting the lyrics to the songs: Hope we can all get to this head& heart space someday soon!

I CAN SEE CLEARLY NOW..

I can see clearly now, the rain is gone,
I can see all obstacles in my way
Gone are the dark clouds that had me blind
It’s gonna be a bright (bright), bright (bright)
Sun-Shiny day.

I think I can make it now, the pain is gone
All of the bad feelings have disappeared
Here is the rainbow I’ve been prayin’ for
It’s gonna be a bright (bright), bright (bright)
Sun-Shiny day.

Look all around, there’s nothin’ but blue skies
Look straight ahead, nothin’ but blue skies

I can see clearly now, the rain is gone,
I can see all obstacles in my way
Gone are the dark clouds that had me blind
It’s gonna be a bright (bright), bright (bright)
Sun-Shiny day.


Strawberry Fields Forever

Let me take you down,
‘Cos I’m going to Strawberry Fields.
Nothing is real
And nothing to get hungabout.
Strawberry Fields forever.
Living is easy with eyes closed
Misunderstanding all you see.
ItÂ’s getting to be someone.
But it all works out,
It doesnÂ’t matter much to me.
Let me take you down,
‘Cos I’m going to Strawberry Fields.
Nothing is real
And nothing to get hungabout.
Strawberry Fields forever.
No one I think is in my tree,
I mean it must be high or low.
That is you canÂ’t you know tune in.
But itÂ’s all right.
That is I think itÂ’s not too bad.
Let me take you down,
‘Cos I’m going to Strawberry Fields.
Nothing is real
And nothing to get hungabout.
Strawberry Fields forever.
Always, no sometimes, I think itÂ’s me,
But you know I know when itÂ’s a dream.
I think I know I mean a ‘Yes’.
But itÂ’s all wrong.
That is I think I disagree.
Let me take you down,
‘Cos I’m going to Strawberry Fields.
Nothing is real
And nothing to get hungabout.
Strawberry Fields forever.
Strawberry Fields forever.

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Deja Vu,
I usually don't post on them but I read almost all threads dealing w/ fog talk. Didn't feel qualified to comment on yours since the fog talk I heard and still hearing from my WxW is because of her As. Thats about all I can focus on.

sky diver,
Once again you have me LOL, "yellaw submarine" really got me. And as usual there is a good message included. From your member number and your number of posts, you are a relative newbie. How'd you get to be such a sage?

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</font><blockquote><font size="1" face="Verdana, Arial">quote:</font><hr /><font size="2" face="Verdana, Arial">Originally posted by sky diver:
<strong> Hey DJ& DV

Posting the lyrics to the songs: Hope we can all get to this head& heart space someday soon!
</strong></font><hr /></blockquote><font size="2" face="Verdana, Arial">You brought tears to my eyes. I have had this really depressing song running through my head for weeks - and right now I can't even remember what it was, as I have replaced it with "I Can See Clearly Now..."

If only it were true!

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DJ- I'm no sage...sassy, yesss, comes with territory- worn by x "torn between all his lovers"& his lost state of " three sheets to the wind". LOL--

Truth-x confused, fevered, delirious, fogged... really looking for GOD! Backwards, approach! I pray they do hook up one-day!!! Give us all break!

One can hang upside down for so long, before all blood rushes to ones head!!! Doesn't seem to work when one person is on the upside, & the other on the downside, nothin but flipside misery.

Decent on earth sage advice Neil Young: Yes,Only Love Can Break Your Heart, Try to be sure RIGHT from the Start..What if your world should fall apart?

R.b Greaves; Take A Letter, Maria...

Last night, as I got home, about a half past ten
There was the wo-or man, I THOUGHT I KNEW in the arms of another________

I KEPT MY COOL, I ain't no fool. Let me tell ya what happened then. I packed some clothes and I walked out...and I ain't goin back again.

Chorus:

So take a letter Maria. address it to my wife or_Husband. Say I won't be coming home. gotta start a new life. Take a letter Maria... Address it to my wife. Send a copy to my laywer, gotta have a new life...

We need more tunes, good tune up and a whole new attitude, & change stations! Guess my problem is locating the darn remote control!!! <img border="0" title="" alt="[Smile]" src="images/icons/smile.gif" />

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((((DV))))---Awe!!! U were really, really, really hurting. I am so sorry it's all so still so very fresh, raw and so deep for you! Depressing songs do find there way in to our heart stream.

I feel so happy that song cheered you up! We are going to make it! Maybe we need to put on happy music block out as much saddness& misery!

Black clouds that have us all in a tail spin just can't last forever! Think we have all caught the drift. We will walk, talk, sing our way out the boggin--FOG!

I found you another song JUST FOR U!
Somewhere Over The Rainbow
by Judy Garland

Somewhere over the rainbow, way up hill
There's a land that I heard of once in a lullaby
Somewhere over the rainbow, skies are blue
And the dreams that you dare to dream really do come true

Someday I'll wish upon a star,
And wake up where the clouds are far behind me
Where troubles melt like lemon drops,
Away above the chimney tops
That's where you'll find me

Somewhere over the rainbow, bluebirds fly
Birds fly over the rainbow, why then oh why can't I?

If happy little bluebirds fly, beyond the rainbow,
Why oh why can't I?


(If your man is being so mean and deceiving! Not clear about his real intentions!)

Well, here's another tune to tuck under your hat! Not sure if you like country but the lyrics are great!

You're Gonna Miss Me When I'm Gone
by Brooks And Dunn

I'm still hurting from the last time
you walked on this heart of mine.
I can't find much to believe in,
you let me down so many times.
Heaven knows how much I love you,
but I'm tired of holding on.

You better kiss me,
'cause you're gonna miss me when I'm gone.

There's not much chance we're gonna make it,
if I'm the only one who's trying.
You know I'm running out of reasons,
we're running out of time.
Someday girl or guy you're gonna wake up
and wonder what went wrong.

You better kiss me,
'cause you're gonna miss me when I'm gone.

You're good at goin' through the motions,
and all I hear are alibis.
And now I get this empty feelin'
when I look into your eyes.
And I don't see the lovelight shinin'
and I don't know what's goin' on.

You better kiss me,
'cause you're gonna miss me when I'm gone.
You better kiss me,
'cause you're gonna miss me when I'm gone.

Oh, you're gonna miss me when I'm gone.
You better kiss me,
'cause you're gonna miss me
you're gonna miss me when I'm gone.

You better kiss me,
'cause you're gonna miss me when I'm gone.
Oh, you gonna miss me when I'm gone.

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DV--Forgot to send you stickties-my head was in the rainbows, blue skies.... <img border="0" title="" alt="[Smile]" src="images/icons/smile.gif" />

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DV-- Couldn't resist this one-thinkin of you!

A Broken Wing
by Martina Mcbride


She Loved Him like he was
The Last man on earth
Gave him everything she ever had
He'd break her spirit down
Then come lovin' up on her
Give a little, then take it back

She'd tell him 'bout her dreams
He'd just shoot 'em down
Lord he loved to make her cry
"You're crazy for believin',
You'll ever leave the ground"
he said "Only angels know how to fly"

CHORUS
And with a broken wing
She still sings
She keeps an eye on the sky
With a broken wing
She carries her dreams
Man you oughta see her fly

One Sunday mornin'
She didn't go to church
He wondered why she didn't leave
He went up to the bedroom
Found a note by the window
With the curtains blowin' in the breeze

CHORUS
And with a broken wing
She still sings
She keeps an eye on the sky
With a broken wing
She carries her dreams
Man you oughta see her fly

With a broken wing
She carries her dreams
Man you oughta see her fly

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At the risk of taking a giant step backward, here's the one that gets me the most, its by Alan Jackson and the main reason my radio stays on the rock stations:
Remember When


Remember when I was young and so were you
And time stood still and love was all we knew
You were the first, so was I
We made love and then you cried
Remember when
Remember when we vowed the vows
and walked the walk
Gave our hearts, made the start, it was hard
We lived and learned, life threw curves
There was joy, there was hurt
Remember when

Remember when old ones died and new were born
And life was changed, disassembled, rearranged
We came together, fell apart
And broke each other's hearts
Remember when

Remember when the sound of little feet
was the music
We danced to week to week
Brought back the love, we found trust
Vowed we'd never give up
Remember when

Remember when thirty something seemed old
Now lookin' back, it's just a steppin' stone
To where we are,
where we've been
Said we'd do it all again
Remember when

Remember when we said when we turned gray
When the children grow up and move away
We won't be sad, we'll be glad
For all the life we've had
And we'll remember when

Remember when
Remember when

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All this sentimental stuff... it's so touching. I've always found music comforting in times of sorrow.

Oh, yeah - I remembered the song that had been going through my mind... Bye Bye Love, Bye Bye Happiness, Hello Loneliness, I think I'm gonna cry,.. bye bye my love goodbye.

I have woken up with this thing going through my brain - against my will even.

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Jolt-Brakes--Now that's movin fast forward! I have God bumps everywhere and tears! I so needed that.One day, I was drivin country & mountain roads in high speeed numb pain. When I hurt, I drive.
That song is the dart to my heart--broke the damn to start feelin $ healin. Sidewinder-didn't want to feel. Had to pull over. Cause I didn't want too remember, needed to cry,& Remember!

Keepin all in stride with the good, the bad& the UGLY to come through to the other side! Yeah, keep the dial on that one-- That's truth, the good& keeper!

Some Bob Marley--


One Love! One Heart!
Let's get together and feel all right.
Hear the children cryin' (One Love!);
Hear the children cryin' (One Heart!),
Sayin': give thanks and praise to the Lord and I will feel all right;
Sayin': let's get together and feel all right. Wo wo-wo wo-wo!

Let them all pass all their dirty remarks (One Love!);
There is one question I'd really love to ask (One Heart!):
Is there a place for the hopeless sinner,
Who has hurt all mankind just to save his own beliefs?

One Love! What about the one heart? One Heart!
What about - ? Let's get together and feel all right
As it was in the beginning (One Love!);
So shall it be in the end (One Heart!),
All right!
Give thanks and praise to the Lord and I will feel all right;
Let's get together and feel all right.
One more thing!

Let's get together to fight this Holy Armagiddyon (One Love!),
So when the Man comes there will be no, no doom (One Song!).
Have pity on those whose chances grows t'inner;
There ain't no hiding place from the Father of Creation.

Sayin': One Love! What about the One Heart? (One Heart!)
What about the - ? Let's get together and feel all right.
I'm pleadin' to mankind! (One Love!);
Oh, Lord! (One Heart) Wo-ooh!

Give thanks and praise to the Lord and I will feel all right;
Let's get together and feel all right.
Give thanks and praise to the Lord and I will feel all right;
Let's get together and feel all right. /fadeout/


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