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<small>[ November 08, 2004, 02:31 PM: Message edited by: T.O. city girl ]</small>

Ok, I'm stumped..... How do I post my picture here???

I think I can pretty safely say its not my wife. She has a hard enough time checking email without screwing something up. lol

But hey, its a cold state, his IF had to do something to stay warm

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<small>[ November 08, 2004, 02:35 PM: Message edited by: T.O. city girl ]</small>

As I said, wait til they get older <img border="0" title="" alt="[Eek!]" src="images/icons/shocked.gif" /> Mine are 12 and 14. Full time job doesnt even begin to cover it for me. lol

that post wasn't for you......I was apologizinng to you! mind your own business otherwise, unless I demand you speak!

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<small>[ November 08, 2004, 02:36 PM: Message edited by: T.O. city girl ]</small>

</font><blockquote><font size="1" face="Verdana, Arial">quote:</font><hr /><font size="2" face="Verdana, Arial">Originally posted by T.O. city girl:
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My parents divorced when I was only 6 months old, then mom remarried 2 more times and also divorced 2 more times....
</strong></font><hr /></blockquote><font size="2" face="Verdana, Arial">TOCG,

It must have been h*ll growing up like that. Nobody was ever there for you.

That book that I mentioned... The Unexpected Legacy of Divorce, By Judith Wallerstein

...well...

it is about you - and others like you who grew up that way.

It's worth a read, but if you read it, prepare to scream and cry.

Good luck and best wishes to you and your girls.

-AD

PS. I had to scratch my head a while to figure you why you think I'm a big "Bible thumper". I forgot my "signature" was a proverb. Here, I'll look it up for you...

</font><blockquote><font size="1" face="Verdana, Arial">quote:</font><hr /><font size="2" face="Verdana, Arial"> Proverbs 21:9 (CEV)<strong>
It's better to stay outside
on the roof of your house
than to live inside
with a nagging wife.
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<small>[ November 05, 2004, 11:30 PM: Message edited by: AD ]</small>

<img border="0" title="" alt="[Roll Eyes]" src="images/icons/rolleyes.gif" /> (Watching thread)

<small>[ November 05, 2004, 11:46 PM: Message edited by: MBMagnolia ]</small>

Hey Magnolia,

What's with the rolling eyes?
Is that for me or for TOCG?

-AD

That's not for you AD.

T.O.C.G.

Are you leaving so soon?

The first time I posted a thread, I got flamed too - and I did the same thing you did - edited all my posts away to remove any personal info.

It's hard to trust a bunch of strangers with the details of your life.

Don't give up so quickly.

-AD

<small>[ November 06, 2004, 11:56 PM: Message edited by: AD ]</small>

Is this thread a monumental waste of time and space or what? T.O. was already erased on the GQII board.Why not here? This is not some pick up joint. <img border="0" title="" alt="[Mad]" src="images/icons/mad.gif" />

Octobergirl,

Each person who comes to the MB forums comes here with problems. TOCG's problems seem deeper than some - and her "behaviour" here has been correspondingly less conventional. Nevertheless, she came here asking for advice - and clearly needing help.

Although I believe she needs more than we can offer on this forum, I don't think it is in the spirit of MB to run her off without trying to help her.

-AD

AD,

I am well aware that this is a site for those with marital issues.That's obvious.But if you take the time to go back and read this posters previous responses,or at least those that were not edited out or scrambled by the poster herself,you may come to the same conclusion that I have which is that this person is not here for any real advice.

I find her language and comments offensive and I would not be surprised if this was a current or former TOW user(troll).One thread on GQII,if I remember correctly, was already eliminated and it was also very distasteful and potentially hurtful to newbies.

I just don't see any purpose to keeping this thread alive but it is not my judgment call.At least MB Magnolia is aware too.

O