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my husband has been cheating on me with my best friend i do not know how long its been going on dont really care. a month ago he told me he wanted out of out 9 year marriage (3 kids) and gave me no reason. he just didnt want to do it anymore. well 2 weeks after that i found out about my 'friend' after i had been crying to her and she was helping me find a place to move me and my kids to. i have not spoken to her i am to angry at her i would love to make her hurt like im hurting but i am the grown up here and will not do anything to her i figure that the 2 of them will self destruct on there own. my problem is that i do love my husband very much i could never go back with him tho he has hurt me too much. the 2 of them and HER 3 kids are moving in to a place together real soon. i have gotten my husband to agree that our kids will not be around her for now all i could get him to agree on is 3 months. but in the mean time i have to find a way to accept this in a healthy way so im not using my bitterness to make my kids hate her. i know that right now the axtent of my hate for her is very unhealthy, and i do not want my kids to have the hate for anyone like i have, does that make sense? i am trying to do everything i can to make my kids ok with everything but it has been really hard i have lost the 2 people i thought i could trust more than anything. and the thought of the 2 of them together makes me sick they have hurt so many people with this and they dont seem to care. i know that really there 'relationship' is doomed but what do i do in the mean time and what if it does work out? im trying to take this day by day but i cant help but think of how things are going to be 6 months from now and it scares me.
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aimee222,
I'm sorry to hear you going through this and I'm also sorry to see that nobody has been able to give you the advice and support that you need.
Please post your situation again in the GQ and Just found out forums. You will get a much better response there.
Best to you
WIWH
<small>[ November 09, 2004, 09:58 PM: Message edited by: WishI WereHome ]</small>
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