Ok this might not be for the emitional need section, but I really don't know where it belongs.
But all I know is that I need HELP
Ok here it goes, A couple of years ago, I created emiotonal infidelity and my wife and worked through it( or so I thought). I feel bad about it everyday. We have been together for 8 years almost 9 and I love her to death. the problem is that have had bad bouts of depression andinsecurity. It has taken its toll on the marriage, right now I'm getting therapy and she is too. The problem is is that there is another guy in picture , he is some guy see met on the internet and they have been talking for about 3 months and he is supposed to be here sometime this month. She says she has feeling for him and doesn't know whether she wants to be married to me or not. She says that she has been unhappy for a while and even though we are trying to work things out she still wants to meet this guy. I thought things were going great , I mean we still have things to work out and I thought we we work on ourselves and then work on marriage . Right now I don't see any hope for my marriage, I lovve more then life itself and want to build a life with her, we two wondefful children and even though things are rough in house we always pull throuhg and it seems like I was just blinded sided by this. I thought she was talking to him anymore. What do I do. Do I give up on the marriage and let her go her way, everytime I bring up divorce she gets angry at me and saying I'm giving up. I feel like giving up ..it seems not matter what I do I can't win and wants what's best for her. Please help
