I need to pick up some more of my winter clothes and other winter items from my IL's house where my STBXH lives. To this point I've only gone after informing him so that he could be there when I was there. He must think I'm going to try to take his things.
Anyway, I've been trying to contact him in order to pick up some more things for the past couple of weeks. He doesn't return my calls or e-mail. I've called him maybe 3 times and e-mailed him twice. Today I got ahold of him but he was eating lunch with a friend so he wasn't open to having me over then. I'm just getting tired of working around his schedule. I'm thinking about just going over there (his parents will still be there) and getting my things with him not around. I just don't want him thinking I'm doing this to be mean.
I thought about it today and wondered that if he even wanted me again if I would let him back with me. The answer is no. I just want this over with ASAP now.
The person he was having lunch with is studying law right now. He probably was discussing what he should do about the DV with him.
I just want all my things from the house. I don't have time to go and sort through all of out things so that's why it's taking so long to get them all. Plus his family and he are always looking over my shoulder when I'm there. I wish it were the other way around and he had to sort through everything and move it himself. <img border="0" title="" alt="[Mad]" src="images/icons/mad.gif" />
<small>[ November 09, 2004, 06:04 PM: Message edited by: ivoryivy ]</small>
