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#779735 11/24/04 12:55 PM
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I could just spit at him...let him know that he is useless and lower than lower...

One of his hoe's came into our business today - she had moved away but I guess she's visiting for the holiday - no wonder he hoped that I was going away for turkey day.. she was actually living 4 doors away from us...Funny, she saw me twice and never said a word to me...If her son wouldn't have been w/her I swear I would have let her have it..Her chasing men married or single is not a secret in our small town.

It's not bad enough that another of his hoe's works for us and is a constant reminder that I am married to a ???? hell, I don't even have a word for what he is....I just know that with all these reminders that I hate him today..I hate him for who he is..and all the damage he does..and never has any remorse. It's a game..

I've asked him to leave - go - he won't leave..

I haven't filed for divorce but it will happen.

I'm just venting...Why should I feel out of place in our business because of the trash he runs with...How dare he treat me like trash. Maybe I'm just everything that he's NOT..and he hates me for that..

Well, this sure calls for a drink after work...He goes out all the time - I never do..well, I'm going today..

He's just a jerk - plain and simple..What 51 year old man that wore a wedding ring for 10 years, got caught cheating with multiple partners - then decides to not wear his wr???? Like he's spiting me....I'm being punished for his infidelity...he wore it for the last 2 years that he's been cheating - why did he ever wear it...apparetnly, marriage means nothing to a serial cheat....

Ok, I feel alittle better..

#779736 11/24/04 09:44 PM
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ITHURTS, My STBXH and I also had a business together. He just turned 52 and he, too, ran around with several women employees. 4 years ago, he left me and the business to live with one of them, the current MOW who's 25 years old. It definitely hurts - not only the infidelity but the humiliation of everyone at work knowing except me!

#779737 11/30/04 11:16 PM
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Maybe we should just put all the unrepentant WSs on an island together and see what happens.

You know, Mine has been gone for years. And he never cheated physically on me. But I hate him too.

And lately it's been worse.

I have to deal with a potential custody change on one - not both - children and an IRS audit. None of which would I be dealing with if he had been a man. A responsible man.

I think total body tweezing might be a good stop-gap punishment while we hunt for a deserted island bad enough for them.

#779738 12/01/04 11:24 AM
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HELLO, boy you are talking my language. X- H called again this morning this is his custom when he and 5 or 6 girlfiend (married to someone else) are on the outs. Good ol'sara she will always be there. No longer answering the phone - a*******. Your right tweezing, or waxing is in order

#779739 12/01/04 11:53 AM
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How about this for fun -

Have a party - invite all our WS OW/OM - but be sure to invite thier spouses too...Boy, that would be an interesting evening..My WH sure would get some 2X4's that nite all the way around..

Or maybe I should just go screw one of their husbands - see how they like that...Don't think so...hahahhah


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