I just read your response to "jamsonsand" and it really kind of smacked me in the face. Now I'm not sure if I'm doing what you descrobed, or if I am and am just a bit blind, but the situation you described and responded to her is almost exactly mine. I have a GF/Fiancee that I lived with for 4 years (to say we went thru a lot is an understatement of the century). Anyway, she eventually elft me and I was sdevastated. My current GF is a friend of mine who was helping me try to get back with my ex. When I lost hope for the 40th time I decided to ask the current GF out (she was just getting out of a relationship also). I was very clear that I was still distressed from my last relationship, but quickly shared dreams of being married with the new GF. Now almost 1 year later I still very much miss my ex, and am not sure I can commit to the new GF (right now I know I can't).. Any advice- please be candid I can take it. Seriously in need of help I think, John.. THANKS!

Hey John!

I was snooping around and saw your post. I wasn't getting much feedback here so I moved my post to the Emotional Needs section. The response has been overwhelming. Everyone is very candid and supportive. Maybe you should try there and see what kind of response you get. <img border="0" title="" alt="[Smile]" src="images/icons/smile.gif" />