My husbsand of 19years,lost his job in Sept. an took a new job in another country( because he claims this is the only job he could find) the kids an i remained home with plans to join him at the end of the school yr. which was over in May here, now anytime i mentions comming there ,he goes into this rant an raving as to how he does'nt want to be obligated to stay an if we came he would be, also this is his 4th. time taking a job in another state an leaving his family in limbo, an on two of the previous jobs in another state he has had affairs , which he insist is normal an that it must be something wrong with me because I refuse to behave the way he does. I desperately want out of this marriage , an to never have to lay eyes on this man ever in life , but I would love to be able to inflict the same sort of pain on him that he's inflicted on me.

Take solice in that what comes around goes around. Don't waste your time with revenge. Spend that energy on more constructive things for you and yor kids. You may want to repost this under Divircing/Divorced for more responses.

Best wishes,
Jack72