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My husband and I have only been married for 7 months. A month and a half ago he told me he had a one night stand with a coworker. 2 weeks ago he told me she is pregnant. Last nigh my husband and I admitted to ourselves and each other that it is over. He can't forgive himself and I can not live with The OW and the OC. It is a bad way to end a 7 1/2 yr. relationship, I can't live tha rest of my life like this.
I am completley naive when it comes to divorce. I don't even know where to start, how the whole thing works, how much this will cost. Any advice would be good. Neither of us has told the other that that is what we want, but we both know it. I don't want to end things bad and I want this to be as painless as possible. We have both suffered enough.
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Call a lawyer for a consultation and go from there. Good luck!!!
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Since you don't have children, it will be easier and less expensive. Also, the fact that you've only been married 7 months can make some differences in some states.
You'll need both of your social security numbers, a list of bank accounts, loans and credit cards, plus a list of joint property.
I think it's safest to talk to a lawyer first before talking property division with your spouse. It can be very tricky.
Good luck.
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