My WW and I have started spending time together again after we had separated for more than a year. We both had seen other people but decided to put our marriage back together with MC after 3 months of neither of us being actively involved with other people. Last wk I was told that my "FWW" had started seeing someone else. I saw her coming from the OM home which she originally denied but later admitted to. Her reason was he was having trouble with his girlfriend and needed someone "to talk to" and since he was an old friend she saw nothing wrong with this. The irony of this is that it was this guy's girlfriend who called me with her suspicions after seeing my WW phone number on his phone caller ID. My WW doesn't think I should feel betrayed and doesn't believe that she did anything wrong. I told her had she not lied initially about it, perhaps neither would have I; but her lying about going to his house in the first place was good reason for me to have concerns and reservations. We have not talked in two days; there was no argument nor LB's I have just decided to wait and see. I have not been accusing but feel distressed right now. This was almost the same scenario that led to our separation and I just can't live through another episode. Our MC has told my WW that she and anyone else would have a difficult time believing her story and has suggested that my WW think about it and either tell me the truth or just not pursue recovery at this time. What can or should I do?

Sad isn't it- majority of ws have the same script, act out the same way, say all the same things....

I am just sending you comforting e-card to make you feel better- I know we can't take the pain.

But God can in time-it's all senseless when someone you love loses their moral compasses. Lives life that which you are no longer apart of of. They are sooo lost.

Just a bit of God soul comfort!

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