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I'll be moving out of my house in one week -- I know its what I need to do - out of the house with the horrible memories - into my own space so I can heal and get away from the chaos of my WH. Hopefully the house will officially be listed today. Hopefully it will sell quick.
My WH continues contact with OW and had 4 other affairs in our 5 1/2 year marriage. He has no interest in trying to see if we can fix things even though I had wanted to try. I am doing what I have to do for myself -- why am I so freaked out??? I guess that's normal?
Anyone have any coping mechanisms?? Can anyone just remind me I'll be OK? That this is what needs to be done in order to move forward. I still love my WH which also drives me nuts! I just want someone to knock me unconscious - move all my stuff, unpack it and wake me up in my new place!!!
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Joined: Aug 2004
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Oh, you will be ok. My stbxh moved out this past weekend. (DD - 6 promptly asked for a step-dad for Christmas <img border="0" title="" alt="[Eek!]" src="images/icons/shocked.gif" /> ). It is tough, I find that if I keep my schedule booked and get myself to the gym I handle things better.
You will make it. ((hug))
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Thanks cyllanlisa -- Your post inspired me to go to the gym (I was going to skip today cause it is absolutely freezing outside!!!) I've been keeping busy -- tough time of year to go through this... but I guess any time of year would be hard.
Thanks for the hug!
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Still Processing- Sending my warmest hugs here! I so understand the pain. My x had that I know of 8 affairs-settle with someone now. I sure hurt. Eeeeeeeeeasssy It's all gonna be OK Relaxxxxxxxxx The pain will diminish- I didn't so--I prayed for God to release from the agony and He did. You sweety are going to make it! I am sending you comforting e-card to brighten your day-keep your speakers on... God love you very much! Just for you. YOU and GOD will make it through-You'll look back and go--- WOW! Just a day at a time-step at time- press into HIM! http://www.angelhugs.com/serenity.htmlChrist Love my love Sky http://www.angelhugs.com/serenity.html
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