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Wh is a (serial cheat).. I tried to get him to talk on NYD - he wouldn't open up and tell me why he bothered to buy me a Xmas card and a gift..all he said was he "felt like it"..I asked him if he knew why I didn't buy him one - he replied - I guess you didn't feel like it...I said No, that wasn't why - I said we need to talk - we haven't talked in months..and he blew me off and "took a nap"..
I need to tell him that I've let go...I "think" I've shown him this in my actions - but, I need to verbalize it..
I've held on too long to this M and I'm ready for whatever happens - he doesn't want to heal or let go of his A's - so I have taken a stand and have let go of him and our M...
Why doesn't he want to talk?
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He doesn't want to talk because he's withdrawn from you and your M. I would tell him you need to tell him somthing and if he says he doesn't want to talk just tell him you are done. You have had enough and want a D. That should get his attention.
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Think I have to wait to actually say "I WANT A DIVORCE" till I/m ready to sign the papers. I'm awaiting some financial "stuff" before I decide "when" to divorce.
I just want him to hear it - that I am in the same place he is....withdrawn and hanging by a very thin thread...
Just found out he was again w/MOW this am..so today wouldn't be the best day to say it...He's too full of himself at the moment...
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