My STBX and I spent the holidays together with the children.Long story short ..we got along ,he's apologized and I really do think he gets it now.But...while we were apart,he was with someone else who says she is pregnant by him.I guess she had the baby a week or so ago,she has not contacted him,don't know if she even knows how since he is not in the area,but I think if she wanted she could find him. Anyway my divorce is suppose to be final in 10 days and I have mixed feelings.If this whole other thing would not have happened I would most likely give it another shot.And at the moment I'm not sure how I feel..my feelings are bouncing around all over the place.Other people have advised me not to drop things because if she does come after him and the baby turns out to be his,I will be glad I protected my self as far as child support goes.Anybody here have any good advice as far as what I should be thinking about? And could it just be the holidays and the nearing of the court date that have us both re-thinking our decisions? I would appreciate any advice or at least someone else let me know I'm not alone in what feels like a really messed up situation! Thanks!!