Though I think I know the answer to this --- I haven't seen my WH for a while - have had limited contact over e-mail and even more limited over phone in dealing with selling our house. I moved out 2 1/2 weeks ago - haven't seen him for at least a month and that was only for 3 minutes in the driveway of our house...

Question -- we have 4 dogs - I have 2, he kept 2 - I wanted to have a doggie reunion and see the other 2 I don't have... he's going to be home this weekend and asked if I wanted to stop over with the dogs.... I KNOW I shouldn't but I'm wanting to do a bit of an experiment to see how I feel when I see him... I'm going to have to see him again at settlement for our house, etc... so I was pondering going out there this weekend to see if maybe, just maybe, when I see him I'll wonder to myself what I ever saw in him. I understand that I may not feel that way and I may just undo all the progress I've made since getting into my own space BUT seems I'm into self torture and can't help but wonder... anyone have any bits of wisdom on this?