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#78244 08/05/02 07:31 PM
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husband doesn't trust me cause I lied to him. I have a guy friend where I work, eat lunch together, talk about problems, he makes me laugh. If I had told husband about my new friend he would have freeked out so I lied and husband did find out anyway...I told husband we were just friends..he says he believes me now, but still gives me the 3rd degree on every minute of my day.....I am tired of trying to remember every thing I say and do.....aren't I entitled to personal time and privacy?

#78245 08/07/02 08:24 AM
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How would you feel if your husband has a female friend at work in which he you eat lunch with everyday, talk about problems and she makes him laugh. You also found out that he lied about this relationship with you because he knew you would be jealous so he lied to you but you found out anyway. How do you think you would really feel about this. Once you start lying you dig a hole that just leads to a bigger hole. If I was your spouse I would feel very disappointed toward you. I think you are asking for big trouble in the long run.

#78246 08/07/02 01:45 PM
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Perfect reply Bryanp.

Complete honesty...with everyone else, and most especially, with yourself.

Hardest person to be honest with, I think, is yourself.


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