After writing the first time I realize how much my husband probably needs my love and affection. We've tried to talk about things thru this past year considering we hit the '7-year-itch'. I DO feel overwhelmed with the kids, work, house, etc. and wish he could help out, but with him being gone to another state for 2 months it's hard to communicate on issues that are ruining us. Not only is the sex less and less but the 'I love you's', hugs at the end of the day, dinner out (just the two of us), and romance have taken a back seat.
He's already been divorced once, as-well-as the rest of his ENTIRE family, and I don't want to be like them. How do we, or I, get back the love we had at the beginning? Like the butterflies when we see each other for the first time in a month, the feeling that this is your soul mate. With our daughters in dance, basketball, and 4-H and a 6-year old son we run out of time for ourselves and sometimes even when there is a moment for us alone it is short-lived. So with money being tight, life being hechtic, and all this running around where do we go to get back to 'us'?
Thanks in advance to everyone who has an open heart!!!!!!!!!