I posted this on GQII but didn't get much of a response... not sure if anyone out there remembers my "situation" - WH w/ multiple affairs, still w/ OW, i wanted to fix things, I finally moved out - was losing my love and respect for him - currently very limited contact but when i do speak to him i'm very civil. Anyway - he called me saturday to let me know he took a job out of state and will be moving sometime next month! I am saddened by this - wasn't convinced things were over for us just yet... now that he'll be moving i'm pretty much thinking this is it. We have lots of lose ends to tie up before he goes - house still for sale, cars to divide and sell, etc...
Not sure what my question is to you all but has anyone dealt with this? The job he took will require a lot of traveling - I'm hoping that ends his relationship with OW. I'm thinking this may be the best thing for me as it may help me move on with my life. He has no interest in reconciling. I'm not sure how to leave things with him... do I just wish him the best and say see ya'... do I write him a letter that will give me some closure by saying things that I haven't said to him yet (as far as how he hurt me and what has upset me the most - which was his disinterest in even trying to fix us before he ditched us) I realize he won't grasp what i'm saying but will it make me feel better???
Anyone have any advice? I'm stunned by his news, saddened that I really won't be seeing him again it seems, and annoyed at myself for feeling that way.
<small>[ January 25, 2005, 03:02 PM: Message edited by: stillprocessing ]</small>
