First, not to get the courts involved and he would gladly pay me 1/2 the home ins. and medical bills from Aron's birth.

Then tonight he says "I don't feel I owe 1/2 the med. bills because I didn't want you to get pregnant!" <img border="0" title="" alt="[Eek!]" src="images/icons/shocked.gif" />

(Keep in mind this is the 1st child in a 12 yr. marriage.)

Then about his "A" he says "You have no proof it started before I left."

Geeze, if that's not an underlying statement of admission I don't know what is.

I looked on saveyourmarriage.com and the 10 signs your mate is cheating - he hit on most of them.

Still he tells me this crap.

Then he stearnly tells me "You need to work full time!" I'm working as many hours as my job will give me. If that's only 30 right now I can't help that.

I told him that he can't tell me how many hours I need to work! Who the heck does he think he is?

He just wants me to make more $ so that he has to pay less in child support the blankity blank.

OOOHHH <img border="0" title="" alt="[Mad]" src="images/icons/mad.gif" /> I am so mad!

Tess,

Don't listen to him. Listen to your attorney.

LL