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I tried to email you the other day at an old hotmail address you had posted for someone to email you at...

I have a thread over in the Infidelity area and one here in the divorce area... with some background...

I have asked several questions that have gone unanswered... maybe you can help...

http://www.marriagebuilders.com/forum/ultimatebb.php?ubb=get_topic;f=37;t=036175

http://www.marriagebuilders.com/forum/ultimatebb.php?ubb=get_topic;f=34;t=012684


My wife and I are at a crossroads... and her counselor has recommended the book by Lee Raffel... Should I Stay or Go...

I see you have posted about this book before... Can you give me your thoughts on it... experience or word of mouth comments... whatever you have to say... I would love to hear.

I am torn on the book... I see the hurt and pain that she has and understand the needing space issue... but I fear the space might give her a false reality that things are better without me and our problems...

anyway... your help would be greatly appreciated!

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Devasted, let me look at your posts. My email is greengablesmb@hotmail.com. I'll check my junk mail asap for your post.

I actually spoke to Lee Rafel on the phone. She was fabulous!

I myself didn't do a Controlled Separation. I wish I had, but I read the book after I left.

It is risky, but so is Plan B. In fact, I think a CS is less risky than Plan B in many ways.

Let me read up and get back to you.

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I know you are probably busy... but I would love to hear from you this afternoon before the weekend... I do not get online much if at all on the weekend... Some thoughts to get me through the weekend would help :-)

Thanks again!


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