OK here is the current situation - I fear it is never ending...OW is still the next door neighbor - we have nothing to do with her what so ever... Though on New Years Eve the other woman's son came over to my house with some boys in the neighborhood - for approx. 20 minutes. He has done nothing to me I think he is a nice kid but they came to see my daughter - well his mother (OW) called and left a nasty message on my answering machine - and told me in no uncertain terms that her son was not allowed anywhere near me - that if he was to come to my house again it was up to me to tell him he is not welcome in my home and if he ever comes in my home again - I would not live to see another f***ing day.. Lovely huh?? I saved it - didn't show the police because I just wanted it to be over... Anyways last weekend my ex asked my girls if they wanted to go away with him and the other woman for the weekend - I didn't say anything because neither one of them wanted to go...So last night-
My ex calls starts talking to my oldest daugher soon to be 15 - saying that they would go away in April with the other woman and her kids and her son would bring a friend a 17 year old kid - that my daughter is friends with but I really watch it because he tends to get into trouble and he really isn't someone that I want her hanging around - so she hangs up and I asked what was it all about and she said about going away and this kid would be going.. So I told her you are not going away with the OW after she called and threatened my life - well the only appealing thing to my daughter was the fact that this other kid was going to be going...
So I called up my ex and told him he was more than welcome to take the girls away but that there were not going away with someone who calls and threatens my life if I ever go near her son - for no reason - So needless to say he called me some ugly names I hung up - and yup he came over - I should have called the police but I didn't he had been drinking - started screaming at me and the kids - calling me some lovely names - and asking the kids why they hate the other woman - I told him they do not hate her and it has nothing to do with her - I just do not want them near someone who has - on more than one occassion threatened my life - drove me off of the road etc... So needless to say - my youngest was crying telling him how she felt about him going over next door and stuff and he was fighting with her - telling her she was lying and he wasn't there etc... it was really ugly...and he proceeded to leave and threw a rubbish barrel at my windshield and told the girls he was never paying a red cent for them again - child support included..
So do you think I am wrong for not letting my girls go away with someone who has threatened me if I ever go near her children - when I have done nothing to them ever??? Yet the two of them think that they can just have their way and go away with my kids - And on top of it all try to bribe a 15 year old with a 17 year old boy - to get her to go??? What would you do??? Anyone Help????