hey,
my husband seems to weak to stop have contact with " her " also she will not take no for an answer. he has told her to stop calling him, she doesnt. he cant refuse to talk to her.
why cant he just hang the phone up ? even my son ask why doesnt he hang the phone up. we are all suffering over this.
why cant he stop reading her emails....?
i toke him back after all he has done and now still keeps contact with "her". i dont understand. its been months now he returned to us.
he is lying when i ask him if he has contact!!
what can i do ???
maybe i should leave him for good this time, i cant take this constant betraying and pain anymore.
he started to say again, iam not in love with you,thats when i knew he had contact again or shoul i say still !!!!!
this is sad . a whole family will be destroyed because of this "woman". i know it will not last but a few months with "her" been true this now several times, he leaving me to returne to her then coming back after a few weeks or months to me, but now i just had enough.this is his last chance...our last chance !!
any help for me on this !! any ideas !!!
please let me know.
thank you !!!!!

You could change your phone # and e-mail and tell your husband that you have a say in this and won't accept this behavior. Or plan B.

I'VE BEEN WERE YOU ARE.HURRY AND GO TO PLAN B. KICK HIM OUT, SET UP VISITATION WITH THE KIDS AND HAVE NO CONTACT WITH HIM WHATSOEVER.I REGRET NOT DOING PLAN B WITH MY H. WE RUSHED BACK TOGETHER,EVEN KNOWING THAT HE WAS WRITING HER WHILE WE WERE GOING THROUGH COUNSELING. I KNOW IT'S HARD TO THIS, BUT IT WILL BE WORTH IT IN THE LONG RUN.IF YOU DO THIS, GET YOUR LIFE TOGETHER.I DON'T KNOW YOUR WHOLE STORY,BUT IT IS ALL TO FAMILIAR.CONCENTRATE ON YOURSELF AND YOUR CHILDREN. THEY NEED YOU MORE THEN ALL THE ENERGY YOU ARE PUTTING OUT YOU SOMEONE THAT DOES NOT DESERVE YOU.

P.S. IN RESPONSE TO THE PREVIOUS POST BEFORE ME,YOU CAN CHANGE YOUR EMAIL,AND PHONE #, EVEN MOVE,BUT THE OTHER ALWAYS FINDS A WAY.IF YOU DO DO THESE THINS,ALSO CHANGE YOUR INTERNET CONNECTION PASSWORD AND KEEP IT SECRET,UNLIST YOUR # TOO. TRUST ME WERE THERE IS A WILL THERE IS A WAY AND THEY GET AROUND ALL THESE MINUT OBSTICLES.