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has mentioned reconciliation even though he's still living with OW.
For those who have divorced and then reconciled - Where the heck do you get started to do it right this time?
This site has so many categories. I wouldn't know where to begin if we ever go get back together.
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Tess, in MI it takes a min. of 6 months when children are involved. That is if there are not glitches.
As for the reconcilliation efforts I would get into counselling, read all you can here and try to find out what needs were going unmet by him and you. Then try to make every effort possible to meet those needs.
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Tess
How on earth does he actually expect to reconcile if he is living with OW???
Sounds like very foggy talk from a very foggy man about to lose his entire life.
No talking of reconciliation until he has met your STRICT rules of NO CONTACT, lots of MC and then maybe you will think about possibly taking him back. The GQ II board can help you with what your exact conditions would be.
He is floundering. He is not stopping the D is he? Or have one of you filed yet?
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