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B. did do most of the work on X.
However, I spent most of the session crying once again.
I feel like my version of reality doesn't get out there.
I don't know how much longer I can get through the pain of these sessions
<small>[ March 03, 2005, 02:22 PM: Message edited by: Greengables ]</small>
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Boundaries!
For MBers, this is not a new issue, it's over 9 years of postponing resolution of X.
If it were a priority to B, it would be addressed.
GG, only you can judge the level of progress you can accept. We trust you, you need to trust your own boundaries.
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((GG))
I’m lost…..
Let me see if I understand
Currently and always
B + X = GG + (B + X)
Today, you’re wishing to see
B + (X x .5) = GG + B + (X/2)
Then on March 15th
If B has 1% of X then GG + B = the Bid D
Boundaries are important but so is reality and acceptance. Not knowing what ‘X’ is and how realistic the expectations of ‘X’s’ departure is, it makes it hard to give any advise.
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I know it's hard for people to give advice. However, since I don't want my H in jail, I cannot tell you what situation X is. I can tell my shrink, my priest and my lawyer. That's it.
<small>[ March 03, 2005, 02:28 PM: Message edited by: Greengables ]</small>
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