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He keeps throwing it in my face, Everytime we have a disagreement. I cant take it anymore, He says he loves me and wants to get through this, and then he throws it in my face. He says he has forgiven me,I dont think he has. Will this ever stop? He always brings up seperation? should I keep trying or just give up, maybe thats what he really wants.
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Believe him if he says he has forgiven you, he just hasn't forgotten. It will take time for him to trust you again. Be patient and kind, try to understand where he is coming from.<P>------------------<BR>A.K.A.<BR>PondVJ
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Vicky is right. Yes forgiving is easy compared to forgetting. I understand how uncomfortable it feels, but give him some time to adjust. Also, and maybe it's not the same case, but many times my H thought I was making comments about the affair, when I wasn't even thinking about it, things were just so fresh and on his mind as much as on mine, and sometimes I would be talking about something quite different and he would relate it to the affair and feel hurt that I wasn't letting it go.<BR>Just give him some time and see how it goes.<BR>Take care<BR>Kat<BR>
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