Hi, just want to get opinions on this email I found a year ago.

This is from one of my Husbands friends and she wrote to him that she can no longer write emails to him because it doesn't feel right and that he should of felt the same way?

I found other emails where they were talking about relationships. She is single and he was trying to get his brother and her together. In one email she said that she valued "their friendship".

I confronted him with this and he said it was all conversation and that I would destroy our marriage because I became so upset at the fact that he did not share with this me. My Husband and I attend the same church she does and I have talked with her but just to say hi. He on the other hand was more involved in the friendship with her.

This happened over more than a year ago, and I can't seem to move on. She is away at college and has not shown up at church for more than 10 months. He says that it was only conversation and that this is him. I spoke to her and told her I wanted to talk with her, but I never did. She in turn talked to my H and said that I seemed upset and he told her about the luncheon date they had that I never knew about. If I had the guts to confront her I would let her know about the email in which she wrote about not "feeling right". I know that would not happen because I just need to move on.

Its a terrible thing to distrust one another, I too have learned not to tell the things I do not want to share and its sad because I feel that your spouse should be the first person u should come with any problems or situations that come in this life journey.

Thanks for listening...

MariD