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We were married for 20 yrs with 2 kids,14 and 19,and have been separated for about 18 mos.W left because she doesn't trust me after an affair I had in 94.Contact with OW was very sporadic,perhaps a couple a times a year,if at all over the years,and I would confess when I ran into her and so forth,to let W know of my where abouts.But she still beleived that I was unfaithful somehow,and left us 18 mos ago because she said she loves me but doesn't trust me.I have told her recently that I would like to reconcile,but what I'm not sure is how do go about trying to repair trust that has been lost??And is it really possible after this long to even reconcile?..we have separated three times before and have moved back together with the intent each time to make it better.If you really loved some one evryone what would you do if you were me?
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Stargazer, If you want to reconcile, why are you posting on the Divorcing/Divorced board? Have you read all the information on affairs on this site? Do you understand your W's distrust? Have you ended off all contact with OW? Have you tried marriage counselling?
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