My W and I have been seperated for 2 weeks. We still have regular contact for our son going back & forth. He is about 2 and we have been married just over 3 yrs.

We have still been going to church together everysunday and spend most of the day together.

She tells me that she needs space & time to think about what she wants. She said last night that she used to know exactly what she wants and who she is and now she doesn't.

I keep trying to get her to counseling but she says she has nothing to talk about. I said how can you say that when you are so confused. I try to tell her that she needs help to figure this out but she can't see that.

She also told me that she need time and that may seem selfish, and that I also need to do what I have to do. What the hell does that mean? Does she want me to leave or move on?

I'm so confused I don't know what to do. I'm supposed to go to my counselor tonight but I don't think I will. I really don't know what to tell because nothing has changed in 2 weeks.

Widget,

Here is a link that could possibly help you. At the very least it can be a good start for you on your quest ;-)

WIWH

TooMuchCoffeMans thread on Divorce busting 180 degree list

itersting list. Sounds good in theory. The HARD part is trying to follow it.