Quick background, I usually post on GQ. I am the BS, WW had an A, we live in Italy, OM was Italian. I have been struggling to make M work, but with no MC, W is just staying for the kids, I have been thinking of moving on. Know that W will not file for D, she is a conflict avoider, she might leave, but she would not take a step like that.

Anyway, I am in the Navy, and we will be moving back to the States this summer. If we D, I know I get screwed on custody as I am a man and military. Likely that if we split up, W and I will not live close to each other. What kind of custody would I get? I have a feeling that I am going to get screwed, seeing them only a couple times a year. This is such BS! I was faithful! Now, after the pain of living through the pain of her A, I lose my kids!

Is it as hopeless as it seems? Anyone have any insight on what I should expect?