Short summary of my story. Married 1yr together almost 3yr. Everyone thought that we had perfect marriage--except for him. Husband told me 1 wk after anniversary that he has not been happy for 6 mo and wants to separate. He did not tell me because he thought it would change and he did not want to hurt me. I messed up and pushed to hard and as a result I moved out 2 wks later. As of now he has no desire to work or even talk about the relationship but has agreed to wait a few months before filing.