My husband gets weird around the holidays. he complains about his family, he is the youngest of 5. Now he has started in on money, he controls the finances. last night he gave me $40 for dome shopping, on my way to the store he calls to verify the money and I state 40 and he stated 60. we had a blowout. He is just getting very odd. I make 100k +, we hav sever 100k in savings little bills...