i just want to thank everybody here on the forum. it has been so hard for me the past couple of days and coming here and reading everyones posts has helped me a lot. i sometimes feel like we will never get past this. but we will. it is so hard sometimes to make it through the day, wishing i had someone to talk to about this, and that it would just end.<P>unfortunately it won't end. at least until the child support is over. we all have the extra burden of a constant reminder of the affair. how i wish my H had had an affair with no OC. i could deal with the affair but this just makes it something that will always remind us of the affair. i don't know why god has given us this burden. but i know that he says he won't give us more than we can handle. i hope that is true.<P>you all are such special people. i thank everyone who answered my questions and pray for all of us. i pray we can get thru this situation and that one day it will finally be over. <P>thanks again for all the help and advice. i found you when i was gonna need you. god led me here. i am thankful. take care everyone and i hope oneday to be able to help someone too!!<P>happy_girl<P>